The fact that you keep fighting back at Phinehas is the reason he is being so "obnoxious". If everyone shuts up, considers what they and others have said, and replies civilly, we can get along fine.
P.S. Before you go on about me being an ass to DDR, let me just say that I have apologized many times (yes, Dan, I meant it when I said it) and changed my way of posting. Many of you don't realize it, but you are all bullying Phinehas.