thats what I'm wondering, what does the blast from a supernova do to orbiting planets?
Close ones will get their surfaces ripped apart in a nova, but in the case of a supernova I would think everything would be vaporized.
If the sun detonated what would happen to earth?
Mercury would be destroyed (and possible Venus), and Earth's surface would be burned off. Mars may not be affected physically, but it would certainly experience a change of some some sort, such as it's surface melting.
is the blast strong enough to strip Jupiter?
Far from it. by the time the blast got that far it would have dissipated.
For different stars and supernovae, how do their effects differ?
They only differ by force, mass exerted, heat, and mass distribution.
does the blast wave push planets out or violently rip them apart?
Unless the gas was impossibly dense, it would only be able to do the tiniest change to the planet's orbit.