And here is the mother's milk alone...
I had to dirty fix it to make the arm spirals last longer, as I suppose they will do, I say suppose because I really don't know as I've never studied galactic evolution.
But by 1B yrs they are gone, and what we get is a flat disk.
The problem probably lays in the fact that dust has no gravity in the sim, so if you make the milky way body's gravity enough to have some effect on the outer arms will cause the center to be "demolished", and setting a smaller gravity for it, as I did, will have almost no impact on the outer arms, rendering the whole thing flat after some spins, because the outer arms will not spin as fast as the center.
The really is different I think because each blob of stars have some pull on it's neighbors. So the center black hole has no pull on the outer arm's stats, but it sets a gravity chain reaction that in the end moves the outer stars as well thought proxy. Well, this is my wild guess. I never studied none of this. On a second reading, they have no clue too... thus, dark matter dirty fix.