just a big of a double standard.
Let me explain it this way: you say that killing is fine as long as the people consent. Well I sure as hell did not consent, does running and hiding sound like consenting? He has diamond armor and a diamond sword and I had iron and a stone sword. He steals my pick, and I demand it back. He denies me. Somehow later in desertopia I demand it back and get killed again. I then lose all of my stuff (it's still probably in a chest somewhere there). But it's all ok because I killed him to get it back. Seems legit.
Maybe if you had actually contacted me and explained the issue I would've considered it, but you didn't. No pm, no post explaining the issues on here or on the Blacraft forum (except for "Then I died a lot because of quontex." which I didn't know you wanted me to look into because it was rather unclear how or why that happened).
I don't have time to sit around and observe everything people do on Blacraft. All I saw was a screenshot of Quontex getting the cow tipper achievement and people finding it funny, so I assumed there were no problems. He told me it was just an accident, so I assumed it was one single case where he accidentally killed you and nothing else happened.
If you want me to look into it, tell me the location and time as accurately as you remember.
I don't intend to make a double standard, I simply didn't know about the issues.