From reading what I've read so far, this thread completely went off the rails and entered into some unnecessary arguments that should've resulted better than this.
Personally, it's really up to Matty's choice, pretty much it's his language but Bla merely offers some suggestions. There was no need to go "pissy" all over it just because of his opinions. The thing is that Bla is also right- there is no defined gender in Minecraft, aside from normal players, and that is that. It is not necessary for a language to have defined genders, it can be neutral, it can only have just one gender. I'm merely repeating from the posts before. But as I said, it's matty's choice and it's up to him to make the decision. It's not like it's going to be an official one anyways, unless Bla decides so, so there shouldn't be people be prissy about the matter.
Darvince, there was no need to overreact. Bla is only offering civilized discussion, he was only suggesting. Try not to take it too personally. Honestly, though, you've probably went too far with him. I know it's a normal occurrence, but always try to think before you just type up your thoughts. It may or may not be better than what you'd posted. It seems completely stupid that you'd want the guy to be mad as well- what had he done wrong, in the first place? There's possibly some things that may have occurred while I was gone, but you shouldn't have some kind of shouting match. That's just plain stupidity.
Of course, there's Bla, I'd say he went too far as well. It wasn't necessary to ban him on a server that was completely unrelated to the whole language matter. You could have stopped conversing with Darvince, and there was no need to bash him. Yes, he can be a ticked off and his intentions may be to make you mad, but to go that far wasn't really needed. It would have been better if the rest would console him, or that he'd change his acts. I'd suggest you unban him, even if you're not on friendly terms, because the server and the language is completely different. If Darvince did something that broke the rules of Blacraft, then yeah I'd see that as reasonable, but as far as I know he didn't do anything that would break said rules.
You two should be away from each other for awhile, as Bla suggested, because if things like this keep happening in the future then it won't be pretty. And this being on the forums seems disrespectful.
TL;DR Both sides are overreacting too much and Bla brings up a good point, although his action in the end didn't prove as well as I thought he would. It would be better if this thread was locked as well.